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		<title>Comment on Time management, or delusion? by Time management &#8211; Barry Winbolt &#124; Time Management Tips &#124; Scoop.it</title>
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		<dc:creator>Time management &#8211; Barry Winbolt &#124; Time Management Tips &#124; Scoop.it</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 10:38:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...]  Time management &#8211; Barry Winbolt           Although he gurus of productivity and performance would have us believe otherwise there is no such thing as time management. When I run workshops with that title I invariably start the day by saying so.     Source: www.barrywinbolt.com [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...]  Time management &ndash; Barry Winbolt           Although he gurus of productivity and performance would have us believe otherwise there is no such thing as time management. When I run workshops with that title I invariably start the day by saying so.     Source: <a href="http://www.barrywinbolt.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.barrywinbolt.com</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Guiding Philosophy by Hilary</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2010/09/a-personal-philosophy/comment-page-1#comment-107</link>
		<dc:creator>Hilary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 13:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I liked this and always enjoy your posts. But ..... just checking, is it deeply meaningful and symbolic that there&#039;s no number 8? I couldn&#039;t decide!
Looking forward to your new book.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I liked this and always enjoy your posts. But &#8230;.. just checking, is it deeply meaningful and symbolic that there&#8217;s no number 8? I couldn&#8217;t decide!<br />
Looking forward to your new book.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Accusations of bullying may be wrong by Barry Winbolt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 09:23:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Florence,
I&#039;ll be happy to comment but first I need a little more information from you. I am not clear from what you wrote as to exactly what the problem is you want to tackle. Is the person who has made the accusation still off sick? Are they returning soon? What would you like to have happen?
Send some more info and I&#039;ll respond as best I can.

Regards

Barry.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Florence,<br />
I&#8217;ll be happy to comment but first I need a little more information from you. I am not clear from what you wrote as to exactly what the problem is you want to tackle. Is the person who has made the accusation still off sick? Are they returning soon? What would you like to have happen?<br />
Send some more info and I&#8217;ll respond as best I can.</p>
<p>Regards</p>
<p>Barry.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Handout – Effective Listening by Barry Winbolt</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2010/03/handout-effective-listening/comment-page-1#comment-30</link>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 May 2010 09:03:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your comment, I&#039;m glad the info was useful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your comment, I&#8217;m glad the info was useful.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking on eggshells this Easter? by Irene Grindell</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2010/04/walking-on-eggshells-this-easter/comment-page-1#comment-25</link>
		<dc:creator>Irene Grindell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 16:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Barry, thank you for that. It put a smile back on my face. xx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Barry, thank you for that. It put a smile back on my face. xx</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking on eggshells this Easter? by Barry Winbolt</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2010/04/walking-on-eggshells-this-easter/comment-page-1#comment-24</link>
		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Apr 2010 11:38:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank for your comment Irene. I really value the feedback and it&#039;s reassuring to know that what I put on the website is useful. Also, I&#039;m glad to hear that you are over your difficult times. With the work situation, as you know, I tend to promote the idea that we can change things, but it is worth remembering that not all work situations are amenable change for various reasons, or that bringing about that change would exceed the resources of one individual. Sometimes we have to accept this and move on. The failure is theirs, not ours. Best wishes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank for your comment Irene. I really value the feedback and it&#8217;s reassuring to know that what I put on the website is useful. Also, I&#8217;m glad to hear that you are over your difficult times. With the work situation, as you know, I tend to promote the idea that we can change things, but it is worth remembering that not all work situations are amenable change for various reasons, or that bringing about that change would exceed the resources of one individual. Sometimes we have to accept this and move on. The failure is theirs, not ours. Best wishes.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Handout – Dialogue vs Debate by nursing schools</title>
		<link>http://www.barrywinbolt.com/2010/03/handout-dialogue-vs-debate/comment-page-1#comment-22</link>
		<dc:creator>nursing schools</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 23:21:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a great resource!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a great resource!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hastings dialogue workshop by Barry Winbolt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 17:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your comment. The next session will be on 22nd May, the working title is &#039;Conflict and Bridge Building&#039;.  Please tell your friend, see you there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your comment. The next session will be on 22nd May, the working title is &#8216;Conflict and Bridge Building&#8217;.  Please tell your friend, see you there.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hastings dialogue workshop by Mary Burbage</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Burbage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 14:39:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very interesting afternoon but I wished my friend,another HIFF member, could have been there.  She is a counsellor and what we learnt would have been more USEFUL to her than me.  Hopefully we shall BOTH be at your next session.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting afternoon but I wished my friend,another HIFF member, could have been there.  She is a counsellor and what we learnt would have been more USEFUL to her than me.  Hopefully we shall BOTH be at your next session.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Accusations of bullying may be wrong by Barry Winbolt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barry Winbolt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 06:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for confirming my point, Adrian. Some employers seem to want to avoid talking about bullying in their organisations, perhaps because they fear that if they do, it will give permission to people to raise all sorts of complaints the organisation cannot then cope with. I believe the opposite is true; when staff and managers are given clear information, via training for example,  spurious complaints decrease and the genuine ones are identified.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for confirming my point, Adrian. Some employers seem to want to avoid talking about bullying in their organisations, perhaps because they fear that if they do, it will give permission to people to raise all sorts of complaints the organisation cannot then cope with. I believe the opposite is true; when staff and managers are given clear information, via training for example,  spurious complaints decrease and the genuine ones are identified.</p>
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