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If you allow a negative thinking style to contaminate your mind, the dark side will prevail.

The remedy is not to ‘think positive’, though that can help, a bit. The answer to pervasively negative thinking style is to change HOW you interpret events, not WHAT you think.

If your natural thinking style (explanatory style in psycho-speak) is pessimistic, and you use the same style or outlook for everything, then your thinking like Eeeyore, and that’s not the best way to go about things.

Still, I would say that, wouldn’t I because I’m an optimist.

Whatever way you choose, may the force be with you.


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