Being Alone and Why We Should Be at Peace with Solitude
April 5th, 2020
But being alone doesn’t mean being lonely, they are two different things. Just as we crave social contact, we also need moments of peace and quiet.
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You Can Say a Lot, But Is It Believable?
April 4th, 2020
Making yourself understood is relatively easy, whether you are believeble or not is another matter.
You communicate best when others trust and believe you.
Continue readingI’m Wrong About Most Things, At Some Point
April 2nd, 2020
We shroud ourselves in beliefs that help us feel secure. One of these is that things tomorrow will be the same as they were yesterday. But the idea that things don’t change is a delusion, that is all.
Nothing wrong with that, but it is best to recognise it, and to keep an open mind about what will happen next. The greater our need to keep things the way they are, the greater the risk of disappointment and even neurosis.
Trying to control the uncontrollable is unpleasant for us, and those around us.
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