Anxiety symptoms are widespread, but also extremely treatable. Nevertheless, many people will struggle for years without realising that effective treatments exist.
Up to a fifth of us will suffer from symptoms of anxiety at some point in our lives, and women are more susceptible than men. Talk-therapy is also helpful but, it seems that, most people continue to struggle, rather than approach a therapist for help.
One of the main problems with anxiety symptoms is that they are self-perpetuating. As soon as you start to worry it creates more anxiety. We are normally able to control this, we challenge our worries with reasonable thoughts and explanations. But under certain circumstances we lose this ability; anxiety gets a hold and we feel powerless to regain our composure.
Anxiety is driven by fear, an emotion so powerful that it is difficult to challenge.
The mechanics of anxiety
Anxiety consists of worrying thoughts coupled with physical and emotional arousal. This natural constellation of effects is part of our survival response. When the brain perceives a threat it sets a sequence of physiological responses that prepare us for action (the fight or flight response), the mind on the alert, the body ready to respond to an emergency.
So far so good, everything is working as it should. But when we’re anxious the mind becomes hyper-vigilant, which in turn ensures that emotions and body stay aroused. This sets up a self-reinforcing cycle of vigilance-reaction-vigilance… The mind arouses the body and these physiological responses feed off each other, perpetuating the cycle.
Constant and severe arousal means that it gets harder and harder to ‘switch off’. Sufferers speak about perpetually feeling on the alert, on the edge of their seats and unable to relax.
Anxiety creates a self-reinforcing cycle. The mind arouses the body and these physiological responses feed off each other, perpetuating the cycle.
What’s actually happening you when anxiety symptoms become uncontrollable is that you become highly attuned to threat and, overstimulated, the mind constantly surveys the horizon for signs of danger. As the process continues our internal alarm system is triggered by ever-smaller threats, while the body takes longer and longer to return to its normal resting state.
This is a self-perpetuating cycle where worry and arousal cannot be shut off. Anxiety develops its own logic and appears to take on a life of its own. The results are not just a heightened state of worry and accompanying discomfort; it can generate a whole spectrum of other effects like tension, fatigue, loss of confidence, moods and irritation, and more.
What are you afraid of?
Although people believe that the starting point for their anxiety is their thinking, which then triggers an emotional and physical response, it may be the other way round. In some cases, it can be the physical symptoms which start first. You may be unaware of the trigger. The first thing you notice is, say, a pounding heartbeat or butterflies in your stomach. This alerts you to the anxious feelings which set the mind off worrying and even catastrophising.
Emotions have been called ‘Nature’s call to arms’ – they are there to get us to act (LeDoux 1999). Once the anxiety cycle has embedded itself an emotional response, with the accompanying physical sensations, is easily triggered (by now, no threat has to be present as the anxiety response has now taken over). As soon as we notice the feelings we start to put meaning to the experience and this is where we start to explain the reasons to ourselves for our discomfort and anxiety. Needless to say, these explanations are always driven by the false logic of anxiety.
Anxiety is driven by threat, but that threat is generally existential (related to one’s survival). What’s more, it can be real, as with an actual event, or perceived, such as when we misread someone’s intention. The faulty logic of anxiety is driven by a set of emotions of which the primary one is fear. A close second to this is mistrust, of everyone and everything that the highly alert and worrying mind sees as a threat.
There are also several myths about anxiety that can send you in the wrong direction or get in the way of treatment. For example, that knowing the cause of the anxious feelings will make them disappear. In fact, These false beliefs often fuel and perpetuate anxiety.
What doesn’t work
Behaviourally, as well as finding life more of a struggle when we are anxious, we are also likely to avoid what we think is triggering it. Sensible as this seems, this strategy can soon become part of the problem, as we start to associate our avoidant behaviour with anxiety.
Trying to suppress it, beat it, or avoid anxious thoughts doesn’t work and it makes them worse. All that happens is that you become locked in a struggle with yourself. Anxiety symptoms cause a self-perpetuating cycle where you can’t shut off worry and arousal and they appear to take on a life of their own. After all, you are both creating anxiety symptoms and resisting them.
Put another way, you can’t overcome anxiety by thinking about it, when your thinking is governed by anxiety.
The physical and emotional feelings that typify chronic anxiety are persuasive and we become convinced that there is a cause outside ourselves. Worrying, searching for an explanation, wishing things were different, not giving in, attempts to beat the anxiety… These ways of thinking merely reinforce the problem because they keep us focused on it.
What does work
Anxiety is a stress response, albeit a highly exaggerated one. We literally have to learn our way out of it. A lot of advice on dealing with stress can also help with anxiety. Consider exercise, yoga, tai chi, relaxation, breathing exercises, for example.
Talking to a mental health professional can also be helpful. Anxiety is extremely responsive to talk-therapy. Not all therapies are equally effective in helping with anxiety though. Aim for a future-oriented approach that helps the client develop their awareness and resources, rather than exploring the causes and concerns of the problem.
Some older treatments followed the route of desensitisation, requiring gradually increased exposure to the trigger situation. While this can be effective, there are many ‘threats’ that we can never be exposed to (because they are existential), so we can’t rehearse in this way.
If you suffer from anxiety symptoms which either limit or control your life there are several things you can do to help your self (I’ve published a post listing 10 of them here). There is no ‘one size fits all’, and it is in the nature of anxiety that the symptoms can be tenacious. What this means is that you should be prepared to try several approaches. Don’t be put off if the first thing you try doesn’t immediately bring the relief you hope for.
Getting over unwarranted anxiety requires a complete change in strategy from the normal (anxiety provoked), attempts to manage and control the symptoms that people generally try. Instead the focus should be on acceptance and changing our beliefs and expectations. We literally have to ‘learn our way out’ of the problem to discover that anxiety cannot control us once the cycle has been broken.
Getting over unwarranted anxiety requires a complete change in strategy from the normal attempts to manage and control the symptoms.
Easier said than done, of course, especially if you are feeling anxious. Many sufferers either don’t seek help or if they do, via their GP, the right therapy is not available. Medication may be offered but this should only be used as a stop gap; it will suppress symptoms and make life more manageable, but it won’t fix the problem.
If you are anxious then you are likely to feel nervous about trying anything new, like therapy. Still, if you opt for the right therapy it will be worth the effort. Research has shown that most cases of recurrent anxiety can be treated successfully and quickly with the right approach.
Choose carefully and avoid anything that focuses on the anxiety or understanding the root cause or reasons it occurs. Instead, therapy should focus on learning how to identify and manage the factors that contribute to it. It should be collaborative, solution-oriented, have a future focus and aimed at developing client skills and resources. If you have any questions, contact me below and I’ll answer them.[contact-form-7 404 "Not Found"]
This post draws on the references below. As I wanted it to be accessible and readable I have not referenced all the points that I have made, but all can be checked against these references.
LeDoux, J., (1999), The Emotional Brain; The Mysterious Underpinnings of Emotional Life, Phoenix, New York.
NICE Quality Standard QS53, Anxiety Disorders, available at http://bit.ly/1vEiuYm (accessed 1/09/14).
Shiraldi, G. R., (1997), The Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Sourcebook: A Guide to Healing, Recovery, and Growth, McGraw-Hill, New York.