I have seen dozens of books on parenting (I used to review them), some good, some less so. As far as I can remember, they were all about active process; doing things for, with or to children. I cannot remember one that touched what parenting is really about.
Most of us want our children to grow into independent, free-thinking, fair and honest adults. Just like we are.
Here are some thoughts, gleaned from experience (135 child-years of it!).
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