You have all you need to do the best you can, so why wait? If something is holding you back, don't let it define you; treat it as an option. Aim to be the best version of yourself.
Are you are waiting until you feel more confident to do whatever it is? This explains the trap of waiting and why you may need to push yourself a little.
Personal change begins in the imagination. Visualisation uses imagination to influence our goals and successes. A vision board combines the two.
"Don't fake it 'til you make it, fake it 'til you become it", Amy Cuddy's words, not mine. Body language affects how others see us, and it can also change how we feel. When we don’t feel sure of ourselves standing confidently can affect our hormone levels, which in turn even could affect our chances for success.
The idea that to be successful you must not take a break, you must push yourself hard, permeates westernised cultures. But that's not resilience.
Fixers and Floaters can get caught up in a relationship of inter-dependence. Breaking the cycle helps both.
Most or us are only average listeners. Improving your skills and becoming a great listener, you'll soon begin to notice other, more tangible benefits:
Whether personal and professional, striking the right note of respectful concern when discussing sensitive issues can be challenging. Here's a recipe for success. Getting the other person’s attention, striking the right note and ensuring that something changes is the challenge.
'Failure' takes on new meaning when seen from a learning perspective.
Difficult behaviour doesn’t have to be tolerated, it can be changed. But that won’t happen if you ignore it, put up with it or just complain.