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10 Creative Questions to Help You Break Conflict Deadlock

Questions have been called ‘keys’; they can open the door to new thinking. These questions can help you find a way past an impasse. They offer the chance to take the conversation in a new direction.

By |2020-08-18T13:34:23+01:00May 11th, 2020|Relationships|Comments Off on 10 Creative Questions to Help You Break Conflict Deadlock

When Someone Hurts You

Make no mistake, words can hurt you. Despite the "sticks and stones" incantation that many of us hear from an early age, words can be lethal. People can and do say hurtful and destructive things. But to be effective any insult or put-down must find its mark. Even the most wounding remark is harmless until it finds its target. As someone once said, "In order to get your goat they must first find your goat." My advice? Move your goat.

By |2019-12-05T12:34:19+00:00December 3rd, 2019|Blog, Personal Development|0 Comments

How to Help Someone Change Their Mind

What do you do if you are caught in a situation where someone won't see things from your point of view? Maybe they stick doggedly to their own position, as in a disagreement or conflict, or maybe they are simply unable to see things from another perspective. It has taken me a long time to learn to let others live their lives in the way of their choosing, without getting upset when they won’t see it my way.

By |2019-07-11T21:53:13+01:00July 11th, 2019|Blog, Relationships|2 Comments

Patterns In Your Life

How do you change self-defeating behaviour when you don't know what it is? Simple really, when you know how. It's a bit like quantum physics (I think, but I could be wrong here). In quantum science they have had to test for things by assuming they are there and then working from that assumption. Its the same with patterns of behaviour. If you assume there is one and act to change it, you'll soon find out if it existed or not.

By |2019-01-22T19:43:37+00:00January 22nd, 2019|Relationships|2 Comments