Some things have to be spelled out. Any change can grieve us and the best 'treatment' is time. There's no hurry, and no need to recreate the past.
Whether it is unexpected, sudden, planned, welcome or unwelcome, change can be very de-stabilising. Whatever it is due to, when the circumstances of our lives are altered we need time to adapt. This is often where the difficulties arise because it is a time of uncertainty and uncertainty makes us feel uncomfortable. Although change can be abrupt, we may need time for the psychological adaptation – transition from one part of our lives to the next – to happen. Be patient and go with the flow.
Feeling stuck, sluggish and becalmed can be uncomfortable. In the ocean of life though, it is best to go with the prevailing conditions.
Some days its important to stop, and to think about those who helped make us what we are.
Pilgrimage is open to all. You don't have to have faith in anything except your own abilities. You can plan a pilgrimage, but not the outcome, and you don't necessarily have to arrive at the destination to enjoy a transformation.