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Patterns In Your Life

How do you change self-defeating behaviour when you don't know what it is? Simple really, when you know how. It's a bit like quantum physics (I think, but I could be wrong here). In quantum science they have had to test for things by assuming they are there and then working from that assumption. Its the same with patterns of behaviour. If you assume there is one and act to change it, you'll soon find out if it existed or not.

By |2019-01-22T19:43:37+00:00January 22nd, 2019|Relationships|2 Comments

Will They Change If you Give Them What They Want?

People often say that they 'won't give in'. They come up with all sorts of reasons. The problem can be that sometimes we need to placate the other person before we can have a proper discussion that will lead to understanding. By contrast, it's also common to overuse placation to keep the peace. This is a short term strategy that creates two losers.

By |2019-01-12T19:38:33+00:00January 12th, 2019|Relationships|0 Comments