Certain negative communication styles are so lethal to a relationship that Dr. John Gottman calls them the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. They predict relationship failure with over 90% accuracy if the behaviour isn’t changed.
But all is not lost, Gottman has also researched how healthy couples stay that way by protecting their relationship and doing essential repairs BEFORE they are needed.

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