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Relationship problems have a way of getting worse ‘all by themselves’. Except, that it isn’t that they do it by themselves. We give them a helping hand.

If you are in a relationship that is in difficulty or has broken down, you are not helpless. You are probably unwilling to tackle it, and maybe you wouldn’t know where to start.

Chances are, the other person is thinking much the same things, so you have something in common, which is a great starting point.

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Never Mind What Others Think

what others think

Even though we don’t realise it when we say we know what someone thinks about something, we are guessing. Even mind-reading – in a fairground or on stage – is trickery.

Yet we often allow our own thoughts and behaviour to be goverened by what we claim someone else will think. Maybe it’s time to review what we ‘know’.

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One thing better

Getting things done is not half as satisfying as doing things well. This is because we get personal satisfaction from giving something all our attention, doing it to the best of our abilities, being absorbed in it while we are doing it, and looking back with pride at a job well done.
“Enough time” has nothing to do with it, as you’ll see.

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