Goals and Aspirations Are What You Wish For
"Be careful what you wish for" is generally associated with negative events, but it also applies to positive ones, like goals and aspirations.
Monday Blues – Try a Different Approach
You may be approaching the coming week with trepidation. But don't let the Monday blues get you. You can take control of your life in a new way. So why not start today?
Unconditional Love? Try Listening Unconditionally
To love someone unconditionally may be more of an ideal than an achievable goal, but it is a worthy reminder and useful advice in shaping our own behaviour. Still, it is probably out of reach for most mortals. On the other hand, listening unconditionally is something we can practice, and there may be a link to love.
No Hesitation When You’re In the Right Place
Difficult decisions can lead to a cycle of over-analysis, which in turn makes it harder to decide. We've all been there. The thing is, as you know, those questions don't trouble us when we are in the right place.
How a Personal Space Helps Keep You Sane
Paradoxically, the better we are able to withdraw and find personal space the more likely we are to remain connected with others and the world that surrounds us. The capacity to be alone is a vital resource for mental and spiritual wellbeing. But 'space' should not be confused with 'place'; how we are is much more important than where we are.
Travel to Find Yourself? What If You Don’t?
Some situations in life seem to demand grand gestures. It's not where you seek but how you seek that is important
Overcome Pessimistic Thinking – Learn to Argue with It
One way to stop pessimistic thinking is to train yourself out of the habit. Learn to develop alternative viewpoints and feel the difference.
Relationship Doubts? No Problem
If you find yourself in a relationship that’s struggling and are unsure where to turn here’s something you can do to clarify things. Maybe bleak humour can reach the parts that reason can't.
“How Do I Boost My Creativity with Mental Visualisation?”
I was asked "How do I boost my creativity with mental visualisation? I've heard that Nikola Tesla and others used this technique". Here's my response:
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