The Cafe Cure; Coffee, Cake and Self-Compassion
I discovered, when I was about 14 years old, the soothing power of coffee and cake in a café environment. It has served me very well throughout my life. Delayed gratification? It doesn't work for me!
Problem-Solving When the Problem Can’t be Solved
Questions are at the heart of problem-solving. The questions you ask determine the type of answer you get, and not all questions are equally valid; some are downright unhelpful. Change the questions and the problem gets new perspectives.
When a Problem Has No Solution
Questions are at the heart of problem-solving. The questions you ask determine the type of answer you get, and not all questions are equally valid; some are downright unhelpful. Change the questions and the problem gets new perspectives.
11 Signs You Should Soothe a Relationship
I have put the list together because it seemed like a good idea, and because I am feeling mischievous. But if you know about the Trickster, you'll also know that mischieve often has a deeper purpose.
Discovery Can Make You Rich
Exploration requires a certain state of mind. If you like a formula, I guess it's curiosity + intent, or something like that.
Should Life Be Planned Or Organic?
How do you choose which way to go in life? We are told that we should plan. I agree, as long as you recognise that a plan is a set of options, stick to it too slavishly and it can become a straight jacket. It will also be depressing when you don't hit targets, and you might miss those little organic shoots that sprout here and there.
It’s Just Talk, Or Is It?
You might think that people talk a lot about themselves and how they are feeling. At one level it is true, but it's superficial.
Why Anger Managent Solutions So Often Fail
Anger management often fails because of widespread misunderstandings about the nature of anger and our beliefs about it. Solution Focused Anger Management avoids the pitfalls from the word go. It provides an opportunity to approach anger differently. But first, deal with the myths.
The 7 Big Anger Management Myths
Anger management myths keep people stuck. 'Letting it all our' makes it worse. The correct approach it to learn how to do less of it.
