It’s not for everybody, I know. Some people want to stay exactly as they are. They hope everything will remain the same, just as it is, constant.

Except that nothing is constant, change is happening all the time. The more you try and keep things just the way they are, the more they seem to shift and move. This includes us, and those around us, including those we love. Relationships have to be resilient enough to cope with this, or they become dysfunctional  We change, things change, others change. It’s in the nature of Life.

It can be tough, but there it is!

Understanding it and accepting it brings freedom. Resisting it brings discomfort, and sadly in some cases, pain.

Change is a constant, it doesn’t have to be a threat.