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To love someone unconditionally may be more of an ideal than an achievable goal, but it is a worthy reminder and useful advice in shaping our own behaviour. Still, it is probably out of reach for most mortals. On the other hand, listening unconditionally is something we can practice, and there may be a link to love.
If you find yourself in a relationship that’s struggling and are unsure where to turn here’s something you can do to clarify things. Maybe bleak humour can reach the parts that reason can't.
We can learn a lot from our successes, but when it comes to conflict and disagreement we are usually guided by misconceptions, unfounded anxiety, and our own (dodgy) perceptions.
Maintaining your personal boundaries and understanding your values are crucial for a balanced life. Boundaries and values are linked. Our values define or boundaries, and maintaining boundaries reinforces our values. This post, explains how your values and boundaries interconnect to create a life of integrity and balance.
We tend to pay more attention to casual or business relationships than we do to those we depend on. Healthy relationships are vital to our wellbeing and so they need looking after. How do you maintain a relationship? Little and often.
Differing opinions are often seen as battle lines drawn in the sand. But a difference of opinion doesn’t have to mean disagreement.
When you are in the midst of a dispute, it may seem that it's not possible to end a conflict, but it is. Sure, it requires a change in mindset, a shift in thinking away from the emotions that drive us to fight, but it is achievable.
Your relationship should act as a place of comfort and sanctuary from the outside world, providing you with a safe and supportive space. How do you contribute to keep it alive?
What do you do if you are caught in a situation where someone won't see things from your point of view? Maybe they stick doggedly to their own position, as in a disagreement or conflict, or maybe they are simply unable to see things from another perspective. It has taken me a long time to learn to let others live their lives in the way of their choosing, without getting upset when they won’t see it my way.
Effective communication is at the heart of healthy relationships. This means more than simply talking; here's what to do.
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