Relationship Doubts? No Problem
If you find yourself in a relationship that’s struggling and are unsure where to turn here’s something you can do to clarify things. Maybe bleak humour can reach the parts that reason can't.
“How Do I Boost My Creativity with Mental Visualisation?”
I was asked "How do I boost my creativity with mental visualisation? I've heard that Nikola Tesla and others used this technique". Here's my response:
Writing about One Problem Often Shows Up Others That Are More Important
If your thinking gets stuck, here's an idea that can help unblock things: start writing. Writing longhand, the old fashioned way start a reflective process that will keep working, even while you sleep.
Save Your Energy: When a Battle Isn’t Really Yours to Fight
We’ve all been there—gearing up for a fight, only to realise too late it wasn’t worth it. Inspired by the tale of Don Quixote, this is a reminder to pause before you charge. Ask yourself: Is this really my battle? Does it need to be a battle at all? The answer might surprise you.
In Life, We Are All Pilgrims
In life, we are all pilgrims – travellers on a winding road shaped by beauty, challenge, and transformation. Like the scallop shell worn by pilgrims of old, our journeys carry silent symbols of purpose and change. Every step, whether framed by confidence or apprehension, shapes who we become. The road is the teacher, guiding us toward wisdom, compassion, and a deeper connection with the shared human journey. You cannot leave this road, so choose your best path. # transformation #pilgrimage #healingjourney #lifepath #personal growth
Being Authentic Means Being Yourself, Honestly
In a world that is constantly making demands on us, where we urged to fit in. Our expectations and those of others can lead us to shape an image of ourselves that doesn't reflect who we truly are.
Pause for Thought and Take Control of Your Life
Feeling Swamped? Here's the First Step to Taking Back Control. In a world that never stops moving, it’s easy to feel like you're just being pulled along for the ride. But here’s the truth: you can slow it down – and you can regain control. It all starts with one simple but powerful act… pausing to think.
Recognising and Defeating Rumination and Overthinking
Rumination, or overthinking, can blight your life. It is linked to depression, anxiety and OCD. Breaking free of the habit of repetitively scrolling through a cycle of negative thoughts is a challenge, but it can be done.
The Benefits of Personal Development
Personal development holds the key to unlocking your true potential, enhancing self-awareness, and seeking continuous self-improvement.
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"Train your mind to look for your successes. They are happening all the time, you just have to look for them."
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"We only develop greater resilience when we are deeply emotionally connected to other people."
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"If you think you can, or you think you can't, you're probably right".
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"Just because you can, it doesn't mean you should, nor that you have to".
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"Simplify your life and work to be content. That will create the space for you to notice the joy. It's always there if you look."
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“Personal Change Begins In The Imagination. You Have To Imagine It Before You Can Become It, Whatever ‘It’ Is”
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